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[Movie]《大鱼海棠》- 活在当下

听过周深的《大鱼》吗? 不瞒你说,我也刚刚从《歌手2020》中认识周深。他有着”天使亲吻过的天籁之音”。到现在为止也只有他的声音可以平静我的心。一天到晚地只想忙忙碌碌的我,听了他的声音,我有种想平静下来的感觉。想想忙碌的意义到底为了什么。我想一切冥冥中好像是天意一样。正当我期待着另一个忙碌的一年,冠状病毒的来袭,让我突然被迫要停下脚步,放慢步伐。就在不知前方还有什么在等着我们的时候,甚至有点惊慌失措的刹那, 我听到了让我平静的美妙歌声。 还没听过《大鱼》的话,可以点下面的影片。好好地,静静地听。不要带着奇怪的眼光听。就静静地听这位小个子男生那纯净,清澈,空灵的美声。 因为这位歌手,我对《大鱼海棠》这部中国动漫产生了好奇心。决定看这部口碑很好的中国动漫。 在Netflix里找到了《大鱼海棠》。还没看过的朋友可以点下面的影片。 意境很美的一部神话动漫。说的是一位男生为了救一位海棠仙子而死去。海棠仙子为了报恩把男生救活,不惜一切代价。包括违背天意和牺牲知己的亲人和同伴,也要把男生的灵魂送回人间。 之后她发现自己的错误,决定牺牲自己的生命来拯救自己的亲人和同伴。最后爱她的一位天神湫 用自己的生命救回了海棠仙子,并把失去仙法的她送去人间和人类男生幸福地过一生。而天神湫永远化为风雨在人间陪伴着海棠仙子一生。 电影尾部,年迈的海棠仙子说着 “可以投胎成人是需要那么多次的轮回才换来短短几十年的寿命。不如勇敢点,大胆地谈一场恋爱,或去做你一直不敢做的事。千万不要浪费你难得的人生。” 这让我想起了海棠爷爷说的一句话,”只要你觉得是对的事,即使全世界的人反对你的决定,也不要迟疑。” 天神湫也说,”如果不快乐的话,活再久也没意义。” 很多人就是这样,做抉择时总是锁头缩尾地。他们总是担心自己的抉择是不是错了。或者他们会选择他们觉得对自己最好的局面,而不是让自己快乐的结果。 虽然得到自己的快乐,可能必须要做出牺牲。但是只要你有那个担当的话,持着Come What May 的信念,一切都能迎刃而解。更何况我们又为何要为还没发生的事而担心呢? 或许我们担心的事,永远也不会发生呢? 大家就好好地活在当下吧! 这部动漫让我想起自己总是对过去怀着怨气,对未来怀着恐惧。有时现在的一切对我来说,还是有点没有真实感。我记得小时候总是有人告诉我,我不配得到好的生活,一切好的事情都会离我而去。一切都是暂时的美梦。我必须不断地努力和进步,美好的事才回呆在我身边久一点。所以我才从来也不敢放慢我的脚步。我要一直忙碌,一直对有自己严格的要求,美梦才会一直持续。到现在为止我觉得这个信念还是有意义的。 即使我现在不想在对未来怀着恐惧,但是我还是会一直鞭策自己。因为只有不停下来,我才可以一直在美梦里往前走。 我相信这个冠状疫情很快就会过去的。之前一直都很忙碌工作的那些人,现在就好好地先休息吧。有时间的话找一个云端培训课程,或读一点可以自我进步的书籍,或是和家人找回昔日相处的时刻。等一切都回复正常的时候,再继续往前跑。 加油! 前进!

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Day 20 of Circuit Breaker – Salute to the Forgotten Frontline Warriors (Childcare Staff)

Just as we thought we can take a deep breathe and shout out, “2 more weeks to go!”, we were slapped by the bad news. The CB has been extended by 4 more weeks to 1 June 2020. Now we have 6 weeks more to go. Well, at least the Home-based Learning (HBL) for MOE… Continue reading Day 20 of Circuit Breaker – Salute to the Forgotten Frontline Warriors (Childcare Staff)

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[Neverland] A Better 2018…

Hihi! Happy Long Weekends to all! Are you enjoying your long weekends like I am doing in Msia or the other neighboring countries? This long weekends, Laogong and I decided to bring my parents out to Jalan Jalan as they hadn’t been to Melaka and Desaru before. Though this is my N time to Melaka… Continue reading [Neverland] A Better 2018…

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[Neverland] Countless Good Things in 2017

Time flies, the first quarter of the year is already coming to an end. I have to admit that this is the first time I actually hope time will fly faster, so that I can faster finish my studies. Year 2017 had been a hectic and very busy year. But it was also a very… Continue reading [Neverland] Countless Good Things in 2017

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[Neverland] Counting my Blessings as I wish myself Happy Birthday! 

Haha! This post really take super long to complete. It was meant to be a pre-New Year countdown post but now it has become my birthday post due to the many delays and constant edits. And just as I was 75% into the post, I fell very sick for two weeks. The post-viral symptoms such… Continue reading [Neverland] Counting my Blessings as I wish myself Happy Birthday! 

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[Movie] “Logan” – The Beginnings of Gen 2 X-Men…

[Throwback] Felt really sad and emotionally disturbed after watching the movie. However sad, I do not believe the movie has “no meaning” or “not worth looking forward to”.  There is more than meets the eyes in this movie and you need to be familiar with Wolverine and Logan before you can truly appreciate the “message”… Continue reading [Movie] “Logan” – The Beginnings of Gen 2 X-Men…

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[Movie] Lalaland – Spotlight Vs Love

I was not expecting a sad ending when I chose to watch <Lalaland> during our weekly pak tor night. The alternative ending did not cheer me up either. I could not understand why things had happened that way. Why couldn’t Sebastian followed Mia to Paris for her movie shooting. Why didn’t Mia kept her promise… Continue reading [Movie] Lalaland – Spotlight Vs Love